over time this has been my mantra, Everything in life response to value, I discovered this little secret as one of life's principles to making it out of the rat race alive.
you see it becomes a norm in our lives that we went to school to get a good job, and live happily ever after, however we have seen this concept failed time again, because of poor system and so whose to blame.
this is actually were a lot of us get it wrong blaming the system instead of ourselves, our perspective and orientation about life could be different on the bases of how we were raised.
a friend of mine would say that we all view life from our different stand point and so everyone has a different perspective about it, in most cases if one was born with either silver spoon or golden spoon they'd understand life differently from a child who grew up in the slumb trying to make a sense of what this life is all about.
Also I have come to realise that life respond to effort, intentionality, there are those who have a lot of things figured out, including names,, opportunities, platforms etc, then there are those who must create a name, get everything sorted out, these two view life differently and live life in different worlds
but one thing is certain we all want to taken seriously, we want to matter, let our voices be heard, we want to be seen, and appreciated, every human wants to be loved valued and accepted, however all these must be earned , just like trust, it must come from the place of our personal effort and how intentional we are about making a difference in were ever and whatever we do, to be respected, valued, and appreciated there must be something of value that you must offer, like life is saying what can you do, life only respond to those who can create something or offer solution to the issues of life, so that means you can't afford to be ordinary and the same, you must think, reason come with certain creative ways to solutions.
the reason why a lot of persons really are struggling with low self-esteem, depression, anxieties is due to lack of self worth, it seems they do not know what to do, they feel lost in a world of people, while every body is busy running after something they look confused and lost perplexed and relegated to the background, trying to make sense and meaning of life.
the more I grow the more I understand this concept better that everything in life respond to value, so how much value you create is how you're valued, respected and appreciated, value is about your self worth, what you can offer, what you can produce, things you can actually do, finding your niche and growing it till it's becomes a name, till there is a value placed on you, building something of value that can solve real life problems, think of what value you can create today, you can't afford to leave life to chance allowing just anything take it course in your life.
I have this nuggets that says where there is a problem don't complain think that's how to make money, the reason a lot of people get stuck in life is because they complain about everything blame everyone or anything for it, instead of thinking reasoning about a possible way out, discover a moment to create value by providing solutions to issues, create something of value, when ever you are complaining at that moment your brain is relaxed, but if you're bothered and eagerly want to solve the problem you're tasking your brain to release possible ways of how to come up with solutions.
creating value is offering solutions to lives problems, life is filed with ups and downs, humans are faced with so many complications and every one is seeking a solution to one thing or another, an answer to their question, everyone needs something discovering how to fix things problems is how value is created.
the rich knows this so they create a product or services that appeals to the taste and ego of some wealthy folks too, so they have something worth of value to spend thier monies on, to feel better and satisfied, this is what you should do, think of what you must do or offer that will be enticing enough to make someone want to exchange thier money for the value that you have to offer.
value is what gives money it's relevance, if not its just a paper, so too value is what gives us relevance, people can only relate with you on the bases of what you can offer, your importance is tied to your self worth and how much value you can bring to the table, without value nothing is worth it, without self worth depression and low self esteem sets in, because without value there isn't any essence to life and living.
having something to live for is one way to be productive, resourceful, relevant, on-demand, competent, creating value out of whatever you do is the best way to make meaning out of life, you feel so fulfilled valued, respected and appreciated.
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