Through this phase, one thing someone told me which stuck with me was to put my first because there’s this pattern of people always coming to me for help but when the tales turned, there was no one there for me. A friend told me to make sure to put myself first in every situation because that’s what everyone is doing. But that shouldn’t stop me from being kind to others. For a while now, I’ve changed a lot of stuff in my life. I’ve learnt to do more for myself than I’d do for others, I’ve learnt to love myself more and more with every passing day and I’ve also learnt to romanticize every little thing in my life because I can.
Today, I got the chance to help some people around me and I did it wholeheartedly. It even had so much fun doing it because if what really a big deal. To me, these are the best parts of life. To be able to give back to others in any way possible. Life doesn’t always have to be good for me, but it always be willing to add a touch of sunlight to someone’s day.
This isn’t to talk about my problems, it’s to tell you that you don’t always have to project your situation unto others. You’d be surprised with how relieved you can become by just being nice to others. Life doesn’t have to be bad for everyone just because it is for you. Spread the love and it will come back to you.
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